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Self-pity, Self-compassion and Toxic positivity.

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March 12, 2024 //  by Kerry Jeffery//  Leave a Comment

There is no denying that when it comes to chronic illness, there is a huge gap in peoples understanding of just how much it changes your life, energy and ability. 

So when it comes to trying to share your feelings, doubts, fears and sadness about your experiences of living with chronic illness, you are  so often met with toxic positivity responses like ‘at least it’s not cancer’ or ‘you just need to be more positive’.

Many of the normal emotional experiences that come with chronic illness are so often wrongly interpreted by others as self-pity which feels dismissive, judgmental and demeaning. 

In this episode I will walk you through all the ways that self-pity, self-compassion and toxic positivity relate to living with chronic illness and give you some insight into dealing with toxic positivity and learning to practice and benefit from self-compassion. 

If you live with chronic illness and have ever worried about getting stuck in self-pity or felt shut down by all the ‘just think more positive’ people, then this episode is for you!

If you got some good from this episode, please make sure you share it with anyone you think it will help.

It is only by sharing our stories and experiences that we can help someone else know that they are not alone when it comes to chronic illness.

You can listen to the podcast here on the blog or search and subscribe to The Emotional Autoimmunity Podcast on your favorite podcast player.

Category: PodcastTag: anxiety, autoimmune disease, chronic illness, depression

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Kerry Jeffery, Coach, Counsellor and Clinical Hypnotherapist.

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I’m Kerry Jeffery,  Award Nominated, Internationally Certified Life Coach, Counsellor and Clinical Hypnotherapist.

When I first became chronically ill in 2014, I thought my life was over. I had lost my old self, my career and my ability to care for myself.

I was left sitting in the wreckage of my life trying to find my way back and I couldn’t find a therapist who could even begin to understand how I felt.

So, I became the therapist and coach that I needed to help me rebuild my life. I learned new skills and  created a new emotional framework to find my way to deal with the often complex emotional issues that come with chronic illness.

Now, I help people all over the world learn to do the same and go from surviving, to thriving.

Your new life with chronic illness needs new skills, strategies and expert support from someone who knows exactly how it feels.

You don’t have to keep doing this alone.

 

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